With the development of social networks and the Internet, online dating began to develop rapidly. People get acquainted on the Internet not only at the age of 18, but also at 50 and 60. What a woman needs to remember and know at any age when she meets a man on the Internet so as not to be used, deceived, not to lose time, nerves, and sometimes money.
The most important thing to remember is to trust yourself. Trust your feelings and feelings.
It seems to me that if you communicate for a long time on the Internet and a man talks about feelings, then there should be no obstacles for a meeting. Otherwise, these are just words that have nothing to do with the truth. Read more here about best dating advice websites.
If a man has feelings for a woman, he becomes persistent and enterprising. He always takes the initiative. If only you ask about the meeting, then the man is unlikely to have serious intentions. It is better to stop such communication.
Always trust yourself and your feelings
For example, a man invites you on a date, but somehow it happens sluggishly, he doesn’t specifically say anything, you meet on the street, at a monument, for example. And then he invites you to take a walk. You can take a good walk in warm sunny weather, but what if it’s October, November, dank, windy outside? I had a friend who told me that they were walking in the wind like this, and then the man offered to go to the shopping center to warm up.
If you don’t like something, if something makes you uncomfortable, then don’t be afraid of your feelings, don’t delude yourself that this is normal. It is normal to walk in good weather, and in bad weather it is better to drink tea or coffee somewhere. I’m not saying that a man should definitely invite you to a restaurant, but a date-meeting should be comfortable for you both emotionally and physically. If, for example, a man invites you to sit in a cafe, but does not order anything, you do not need to take the initiative in your own hands and try to soften the situation somehow. Don’t order anything. Talk and draw conclusions.
Just don’t fool yourself that a man can have problems. He may have problems, but he must find a way out, otherwise, why invite a woman on a date. It is clear that if a man has a “conveyor belt” of women from the Internet, then paying him for everyone is not at all reasonable.
Or, for example, such a case: you start dating a man, and here it is March 8th. And he disappears: he fell ill, problems, a lot of things to do. And it seems to be unpleasant, but many again close their eyes, deceive themselves again, although they understand for sure that they simply did not want to spend money and give a gift, flowers.
Gifts do not always speak of a serious attitude towards a woman, but the absence of flowers, small presents at the beginning of a relationship without words speaks of a man’s attitude towards this woman. Even the most unemotional and stingy man becomes more generous when he is in love. Read more on the topic in Relations Blog.
And a few more points that you should remember when meeting on the Internet, and not only.
– Never impose your communication. If a man does not go online, he does not write, does not call, there is no point in looking for him and imposing his society on him.
– If you feel that the topic of conversation has been exhausted and communication is ending, then you don’t need to try to continue it artificially, sucking topics out of your finger. Better finish. If a man likes you, he will definitely get in touch.
– Do not overwhelm a man with emotions, emoticons, exclamation marks. Be sincere, but control yourself.
And remember that the initiative should be in the hands of a man, if you intercept it, he will lose interest in you.
And of course, do not forget about your dignity!
